In life, things that seem to be irrelevant, but may have some kind of internal connection, your small move will not only affect yourself, but also everyone around you.
Festinger, a social psychologist in the United States, has a well-known judgment, known as the "Festinger's Law":
10% of your life is made up of what happens to you, and the other 90% is determined by how you react to what is happening.
In other words, 10% of things in life are beyond our control, while the other 90% are beyond our control.
Festinger cited such an example in the book.
When Kasten washed up in the morning and then washed his high-end watch on the sink, his wife was afraid of being drenched by water, and then took it to the table. When the son got up and took the bread at the table, he accidentally touched the watch to the ground and broke it.
Kasi Ding love watches, did as his son's ass beating. Then he blackened his face and married his wife. The wife is not convinced, saying that she is afraid of water to wet the watch. Castin said his watch is waterproof.
So the two violently whipped up their mouths. At the same time, the breakfast of Castin didn't eat. He drove directly to the company. When he arrived at the company, he suddenly remembered to forget to take the briefcase and immediately turned home.
But no one at home, his wife went to work, his son went to school, and the Keyin key was left in the briefcase. He couldn’t enter the door and had to call his wife to ask for the key.
When the wife rushed home and rushed home, she knocked over the roadside fruit stand. The stall owner pulled her away from her and asked her to pay compensation. She had to pay a sum of money to get rid of it.
After getting the briefcase, Castin was late for 15 minutes, and the boss was severely criticized, and Castin’s mood was so bad. Before going to work, I had a quarrel with my colleague because of a small incident.
When a writer was on a business trip, he accidentally took a very distinctive taxi. The driver of this taxi was dressed clean and the car was very refreshing.
The writer just sat down and received a beautiful card from the driver. The card reads: "In a friendly atmosphere, my client is the fastest, safest and most cost-effective to reach the destination." /p>
Seeing this sentence, the writer came to the interest and talked with the driver.
The driver said, "Excuse me, what do you want to drink?" The writer is surprised: "Do you still drink in this car?"
The driver smiled and said, "Yes, I not only provide coffee, but also various drinks, and there are different newspapers."Whether the road to be closer is going to go. The writer feels very warm.
The driver said to the writer: In fact, at the beginning, my car did not provide such a comprehensive service.
Like everyone else, I love to complain, bad weather, meager income, traffic jams, and a mess of road conditions, and it’s a bad day.
Until one day, I happened to hear from the inspirational master Dr. Wayne Dale on the radio.
He focused on a point: Stopping complaints in everyday life will make anyone successful.
He suddenly made me realize that my current bad situation is actually caused by my own complaints. I want to stop complaining and start to change.
In three years, my taxi became a five-star taxi that is rare in the United States. In addition to my income, I am still popular, and now I have to call in advance to make an appointment.
And you, in fact, are a passenger I carry along the way.
As the saying goes, there must be a road before the car goes to the mountain.